Careful *who* you wish for

The actual reason "careful what you wish for" is true

Preventing vanilla from contaminating your dynamic...

How to firewall your dynamic so it doesn't leak

So, how DO I make my partner feel more dominant (or submissive)?

Relational Models and Kinky Power Exchange

Domination and submission and Operant Conditioning

No, really, the submissive does not hold all the power

How do I make my partner more dominant?