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My girlfriend became my Key Holder just over 31/2 years ago. The idea for us to do this was mutual. She has turned out to be far more controlling that I expected or even considered. Don't get me wrong I would not have it any other way. We have a lot of orgasms in a month far more than we had previously the one thing that works really well about that for both of us is that all the orgasms are all hers.

Is there a part of this site for Q & A or better yet discussion?

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Re &A: No this is designed as a blogging/news site with comments. The Chastity Mansion site is still the best for proper conversations around this topic.

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I realize that this reply is sort of late (3 yrs.) but I would like to know if you and your girlfriend are now Mistress and slave?

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I think we will find lots more couples getting to chastity play and from there a lot more openly female led relationships which in turn will become far more acceptable

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You really need to describe the benefits of male chastity for the wives. A more attentive husband that will do anything for them just to get attention and possibly unlocked.

My vanilla wife has realized the benefits now and I am locked more and more. She is now getting the attention she deserves and didn't get in the first twenty years of our marriage. And believe it or not, I am getting more attention from her. It's a win win situation.

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That's a subtle one because the initial response of most women, including kinky ones, is often, "Why doesn't he do that anyway? Who's he in love with? Me or the chunk of plastic." Of course it's more nuanced than that, but that makes it a hard article to write.

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I think this also has a lot to do with the responsibility that is involved in wearing a chastity belt. It's something that takes time to care for. You don't just buy a cage and that's it. Safety, confort, hygiene and orgasm schedules are all factors to be considered wgen engaging in chastity. This results in a couple spending more time thinking about their sex life and also with each other.

Of course the kink is a strong aspect, but also the mutual satisfaction that both partners get out of it.

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My impression, however, is that more than half of enthusiastic female "keyholders" have no interest in the process or the technicalities. That's up to the man.

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