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An admirable analysis, even if it is next to impossible to really know what's going on with Amazon and sales. For me, the more engaging question is how men might be expanding their idea of what sex is and that it might not always be (as sex therapists say) "productive". We've known for a while now that the brain is the largest sex organ, so it seems that men may be realizing more and more that pleasure can exist in a cerebral space without needing (physical) climax or even genital stimulation.

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Yes. Though, I think it's less about personal growth etc and more about the extended plateau phase being addictive.

There's also this... https://femdom.substack.com/p/unlocking-the-orgasm-gap-why-the

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Can you edit a comment? , kinda new here that should be me not m , but I guess you’d figure that out

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I can remove comments, but you can *edit* your own by clicking the three dots "..." - assuming you're looking from the web.

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Thanks

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Not me ,but don’t chastise me for not being chaste. I like dangling free, reluctantly even although it quite often does , I feel it doesn’t get used often enough

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I wonder, how many of those chastity are bought by women while buying their vibrators? Luring a submissive to his oral and anal fate is top priority for some women.

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As for the this:

> Luring a submissive to his oral and anal fate is top priority for some women.

I think women like that exist but are rare. It's more likely be to do with the reasons explored in this article:

https://femdom.substack.com/p/unlocking-the-orgasm-gap-why-the

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Realistically, very few *at this point in history*. Apart from anything else, it's hard to buy a device for somebody else. Over on the chastitytraining subreddit, we generally advise dommes to tasks their subs with the purchase and shakedown period.

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Okay, so it is sort of like ordering a sub to measure, field test and then send the domme the keys? Kewel!

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Well in an ideal world, he would be in an in person relationship and handing them over, but yes.

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