She can still make him beg, either just so she can say no, or to mock HIS inflicting this on himself.
In fact it's kinda perfect. In those few worlds where I'm a person who doesn't mind not having access to *cock* (and in many, many worlds where *penis* is just a annoying irrelevance while a *locked cock* has potential) that sounds ideal, better than the diaphragm analogue option. And the fact that it's IN FACT possible to get out even by getting to the car or whatever gives this option just enough conceptual flexibility.
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Few more general notes: the sex in bed only after finishing the Times crossword makes me want drive of the bridge but you're probably right. It's interesting tho because I also dislike the "let's make a date for sex with spouse" counselling model.
I think you go too far in saying the VBB self runs the shoe in ALL times that are not in bed after the crossword. While I accept that online sex positive women are WAYYYY more sex interested and higher sexed than an average one in a het relationship, but still women do think about sex and in sexy ways ALSO while out of bed with clothes on. But maybe women who lean towards chastity don't. Hmmm.
>but still women do think about sex and in sexy ways ALSO while out of bed with clothes on.
But...
> It's interesting tho because I also dislike the "let's make a date for sex with spouse" counselling model.
So if she enjoys him locked, but doesn't generally talk about sex or plan it, then she's unlikely to reliably order him locked upfront because that's committing to how she'll feel later.
Which is the issue that this series seeks to address.
> She can still make him beg, either just so she can say no, or to mock HIS inflicting this on himself.
She can also weaponise her sexuality to the point at which he *wants* to look away because it's too much to bear.
She can still make him beg, either just so she can say no, or to mock HIS inflicting this on himself.
In fact it's kinda perfect. In those few worlds where I'm a person who doesn't mind not having access to *cock* (and in many, many worlds where *penis* is just a annoying irrelevance while a *locked cock* has potential) that sounds ideal, better than the diaphragm analogue option. And the fact that it's IN FACT possible to get out even by getting to the car or whatever gives this option just enough conceptual flexibility.
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Few more general notes: the sex in bed only after finishing the Times crossword makes me want drive of the bridge but you're probably right. It's interesting tho because I also dislike the "let's make a date for sex with spouse" counselling model.
I think you go too far in saying the VBB self runs the shoe in ALL times that are not in bed after the crossword. While I accept that online sex positive women are WAYYYY more sex interested and higher sexed than an average one in a het relationship, but still women do think about sex and in sexy ways ALSO while out of bed with clothes on. But maybe women who lean towards chastity don't. Hmmm.
>but still women do think about sex and in sexy ways ALSO while out of bed with clothes on.
But...
> It's interesting tho because I also dislike the "let's make a date for sex with spouse" counselling model.
So if she enjoys him locked, but doesn't generally talk about sex or plan it, then she's unlikely to reliably order him locked upfront because that's committing to how she'll feel later.
Which is the issue that this series seeks to address.
> She can still make him beg, either just so she can say no, or to mock HIS inflicting this on himself.
She can also weaponise her sexuality to the point at which he *wants* to look away because it's too much to bear.