Dear Giles, I have been reading carefully your analysis and found it was very wise and pertinent. It is interesting to understand that we can "influence" our own fantasies, its something i noticed already. Sorting and developping the ones that are possible with a partner, and forgetting the ones that cannot become true, is a valuable way to get ready for a real and safe relationship. Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts. Best regards, sub Simon
Dear Giles, I have been reading carefully your analysis and found it was very wise and pertinent. It is interesting to understand that we can "influence" our own fantasies, its something i noticed already. Sorting and developping the ones that are possible with a partner, and forgetting the ones that cannot become true, is a valuable way to get ready for a real and safe relationship. Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts. Best regards, sub Simon
Thanks! I do my best to help. (Even my fiction tries to be grounded.)