That is such a grey area, almost completely unquantifiable by many respects. I was teased as a kid by kids asking me whether I was male or female, to which I always took offense, and I do sometimes wonder if that had been the point of asking in the first place to get under my skin. You combine that with my large array of fetish interests, and the way FAR too many chastity stories involve feminization, many times forced, and for a long time I was convinced I'd enjoy that as well. Until I tried it. It was not for me. Far too humiliating. It can still be a turn on to read, but I know it's not for me. I am a guy, but what exactly makes me a guy? hell if I know I just know I am one. I can be a guy and still love anal. I can be a guy and still love being frustrated and denied orgasm. etc. etc.
Milo is going to have to come to a similar conclusion about himself in order to stay sane, whether he can orgasm or not, regardless of what anyone else says about him or assumes about him or not. OR just the opposite. Being the author you can always make him start dressing more androgynous or feminine if that if how Milo begins to identify themselves.
LOL he had all the fun and he's still uptight! lol He thinks he needs to talk to someone about it? I can't wait to see where you take this next!
But what about his masculinity...? ;)
That is such a grey area, almost completely unquantifiable by many respects. I was teased as a kid by kids asking me whether I was male or female, to which I always took offense, and I do sometimes wonder if that had been the point of asking in the first place to get under my skin. You combine that with my large array of fetish interests, and the way FAR too many chastity stories involve feminization, many times forced, and for a long time I was convinced I'd enjoy that as well. Until I tried it. It was not for me. Far too humiliating. It can still be a turn on to read, but I know it's not for me. I am a guy, but what exactly makes me a guy? hell if I know I just know I am one. I can be a guy and still love anal. I can be a guy and still love being frustrated and denied orgasm. etc. etc.
Milo is going to have to come to a similar conclusion about himself in order to stay sane, whether he can orgasm or not, regardless of what anyone else says about him or assumes about him or not. OR just the opposite. Being the author you can always make him start dressing more androgynous or feminine if that if how Milo begins to identify themselves.
I think demasculinised need not mean feminised. But you are right in that he needs to sort out who he is.
Good answer.