12 Rules for Malesub Life
An antidote to being a pest or a loser
Rule 1: In relationships, be a champion, not a loser.
Service to a cause or a person can be noble. Maximus and Sir Lancelot should be your role models
Rule 2: Be your own owner.
You may be a pushover in relationships, but you can still pick and choose them.
Rule 3: Look for dominance in women you respect.
Don’t use people just because they’ll do Femdom.
Rule 4: Compare your current sex life to your past sex life, not to porn.
Good sex rarely corresponds to 5-minute porno clips or captioned photos.
Rule 5: Do not let your partner become unlikeable.
Don’t enable dark triad behaviour to get your kicks.
Rule 6: Be attractive.
Being submissive isn’t enough, not for kinky dating, not for relationships.
Rule 7: Pursue the dynamic with your kinks, not the other way around.
When the ideas come from you, tailor them to things she wants.
Rule 8: Tell the truth to yourself and to her.
Don’t overcommit, don’t backtrack.
Rule 9: Make her life better with your submission.
The dynamic is only sustainable if centred on her.
Rule 11: Don’t interrupt the vanilla.
You maybe “always on”, but she likely isn’t. Submission need not always be explicitly kinky.
Rule 12: Have hobbies, be human.
You still need to be a person.
Read my erotica to find out what happens when you don’t follow these rules.