12 Rules for Malesub Life

Sep 23, 2022

Rule 1: In relationships, be a champion, not a loser.

Service to a cause or a person can be noble. Maximus and Sir Lancelot should be your role models

Rule 2: Be your own owner.

You may be a pushover in relationships, but you can still pick and choose them.

Rule 3: Look for dominance in women you respect.

Don’t use people just because they’ll do Femdom.

Rule 4: Compare your current sex life to your past sex life, not to porn.

Good sex rarely corresponds to 5-minute porno clips or captioned photos.

Rule 5: Do not let your partner become unlikeable.

Don’t enable dark triad behaviour to get your kicks.

Rule 6: Be attractive.

Being submissive isn’t enough, not for kinky dating, not for relationships.

Rule 7: Pursue the dynamic with your kinks, not the other way around.

When the ideas come from you, tailor them to things she wants.

Rule 8: Tell the truth to yourself and to her.

Don’t overcommit, don’t backtrack.

Rule 9: Make her life better with your submission.

The dynamic is only sustainable if centred on her.

Rule 11: Don’t interrupt the vanilla.

You maybe “always on”, but she likely isn’t. Submission need not always be explicitly kinky.

Rule 12: Have hobbies, be human.

You still need to be a person.

Female Led Relationships and Male Permanent Chastity